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- In memory of Luisel Ramos -
The sad fact that there are no pictures of Luisel Ramos on the web, induced us to publish a few images of the deceased fashion model.
Luisel died of heart failure while participating in a fashion show during Fashion Week in Montevideo, Uruguay (read here for the full story).
May your soul rest in Peace
God Bless your family
“R”-
haha
a) I dont really have loose skin…..
except for some on my butt, arms and upper thighs..
but its not that bad.
B) Although my weight loss is slow,
its not 12 pounds in 12 months…
its been about 30 pounds in the year….
At one point I was at a high weight
of 113 at 5’5.
(I am 85 now)
still, however…
thats a slow pace.
Its because I eat alot more than
people think I do
i NEVER fast (intentionally)
I ALWAYS eat at LEAST 500 calories aday
often up to 1000 and some
weeks i eat even more than that.
when i do 400 a day i lose about 1-2 pounds aday
my weight loss has been slightly erratic,
some weight was lost in a matter of days,
some took months.
I dont excercise at ALL
if i did i’d be gone lol
You see,
you lose at about a pound a day
on 800 cals for a while,
until you hit a plateau…
c) my mother would do anything in the world to get me well
d)i hate it if i see someone that i think is thinner than i am
all night i just compare myself
e) COLONIC-
my experience was HORRENDOUS
NOTHING CAME OUT
i lost zero weight
it was terrible
but they said it was because my colon is weak from the laxatives
O yes of course I mean 12 kilos, not pounds (I’m in Europe)…!!
I guess or whatever (too lazy to really think about it lol)
Cool that you don’t have loose skin… I guess when it hangs a little is usually when you still have some fat left. It seems the first fat you lose is the fat closer to the mucles (and of course the muscles shrink), and the last fat you lose is the closest to the skin… I am now trying to lose as much fat as possible before losing any muscle mass, so I eat only the amount of cals my lean body mass requires every day (about 1200-1300 cals),
Of course I don’t mean bulky muscles 
. I do always want to be able to do low-intensity activity exercise, it makes me feel good. I hate it when I am too exhausted to exercise…
no more no less, plus I do a lot of low-intensity activity (like long walks, housekeeping, yoga, all the stuff that burns fat but not glucose or muscle tissue). So if later on I lose some muscle mass by cutting my calories below 1000, I will not be ‘fat skinny’ if you know what I mean… Like how girls get who mainly lose muscle and water but hold on to their fat. I like muscles… tight toned compact, long, visible muscles!!
I also eat 5-6 small meals a day, to keep muscle from breaking down (starvation=>breakdown of muscle tissue + fat preservation, as you know). It is indeed smart not to intentionally go into starvation… but you were so successful at all this that now you are at such a low weight that I fear for your life…!!!
Even at 500 calories a day your metabolism can shut down though and you’ll hold on to fat. But you know as well as I do that that would make you very very hungry, so ??? hmmm I don’t know. I mean, of course the trick is to never have a completely empty stomach, but you’re still going to only burn as much as your body can afford to burn for energy (meaning: low intake is low output)… so technically, wouldn’t starvation happen at less than 1200 calories for a female or less than 1000? A fast is considered anything under 800 calories I believe… But then there is definately a point, for example after 3 days of water-fasting (not to be recommended) when your body switches to burning fat for enbergy (this is when you feel tired because this is harder for the body to do)… so who knows.
>” You see,
you lose at about a pound a day
on 800 cals for a while,
until you hit a plateau…”
True. This would be because your body gets adjusted to eating only 800 cals and thus lowers its output (in other words: the shutdown of your metabolism to some extent). Your body will conserve energy.
You could then eat 1000 or more cals and be more active for a while, so your body will get used to burning 1000, then switch back to 800 after a while and you’ll be burning up 200 cals extra a day again (technically speaking). Ok don’t do this, you WILL die since you are in the starvation range with your BMI (beyond anorexic!!!). So don’t do that, honey.
The other thing is that if you WOULD exercise, like bike or whatever, you would probably get better because you would get ravenously hungry and eat. You are putting yourself in great danger by not moving your body (and not eating enough (DUH like you don’t know this hehehe).
(from http://www.freeacnebook.com/56-63.htm):
“That is why it is so dangerous when an anorexic patient becomes totally inactive; she easily burns more calories (including calories from organ-protein) than she consumes because she is utilizing relatively little sugar. She, therefore, has no problem keeping her blood-glucose level stable.”
Gotta go- talk later
It is interesting to see how some people’s perception of right and wrong has been twisted purely by the need to be accepted by others. It is also very sad. Eating disorders ruin lives. It ruined my life. And it takes alot of work to get back on track and accept yourself for who you are. It is not worth it, and this is not forever. It either kills you or ruins you, unless you face what is really causing it before it gets too far. You have to respect yourself, or noone else wil be able to. Your life is yours to make of it what you will. Do not waste it. People like this girl who have been taken in by the promise of a better self do not respect themselves. They need and want to be accepted, to a point where they go too far.
This whole idea of beauty is warped and wrong. What is beauty? Who has the right to decide what beauty is? That is up to you, and you only. You need to realise what is right for yourself. I used to believe that if you wanted to starve yourself it was your choice, and it was fine. But it’s not fine. It weakens your mind, body, and soul. Be enthusiastic about life. No matter what obstacles you may face, realise that your life is what you make it, only you can change it. Noone is going to do it for you.
Love yourself or noone else will,
Ashlyn.
ASHLYN-
Not to be rude, but you certainly have a VERY wrong perception of anorexia for somebody who claimed to have it.
Did you not read the TIRADE I posted on how
anorexia has NOTHING TO DO WITH
VANITY OR ACCEPTANCE???
Hun-
I respect myself ENTIRELY.
I am a proud woman, proud of my accomplishments and of who I am as a strong human being.
Furthermore-
“acceptance” is the OPPOSITE of what I strive for.
ANOREXIA HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEAUTY.
ANORECTICS WANT TO LOOK UGLY, NOT BEAUTIFUL.
Your whole speech about eating disorders was so off that I almost doubt you even had one.
You were wrong about…well….everything.
Hi!
Ashlyn, I don’t completely agree or disagree with what you say… I just think anorexia is such a complex disease…
For me, all the times when I was at my lowest weight, feeling fat, I felt like I just wanted to go back in time (or be younger) to a place where nothing had gone wrong yet. It is hard to explain. I want to purge the past… purge all the damage and all the pain, messy things that happen in life… my own mistakes, all the missed opportunities…
Ugh I am sounding depressed again. I just want to say that there is much more to it, and self-acceptance is much harder for me than to be accepted by others. I do love and accept myself… I just don’t know how to live in this world sometimes… how to be truly happy. I am very lonely inside. I always need to challenge myself to the extreme. I get bored with everything.
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So I had my first colon hydro, after 3 days of juice-fasting. I was really nervous before because I REALLY wanted some stuff to come out lol. Well, I was pleased with the results… it didn’t look like a lot but the next day I weighed 1 kilo less (almost 2 lbs). I also felt really good and relaxed afterwards. Emotionally, I felt like I had gone back in time to a more happy moment. Too bad that only lasted for a few hours.
Hi Nico!!!
Yea, I hate that feeling I get when I see someone who is skinnier. It usually happens when I actually feel happy having lost some weight. So disappointing, especially when I am hungry or when I’m buying something I like to eat. It really helps to kind of be prepared. The way I deal with this now is that I kind of expect there to ALWAYS be a skinnier girl, no matter where I go. This way it doesn’t hit me by surprise. So when I see a skinnier girl, I just think of her as a symbol and think “Ah, there she is, the skinnier girl”. LOL. I try not to get distracted and
one of my rules is that I should never compare my body to someone elses’. Ok that is really hard to do but I try to focus on my own body exclusively.
Also, another thing is that there is such a thing as a ‘skinny group’, meaning that two people can both belong to the skinny group even though one may be skinnier than the other.
I have some jealousy issues. I am learning how to deal with that. It seems that it really DOES come down to thinking the world of yourself no matter what instead of putting impossible demands on yourself or feeling guilty for everything that goes wrong in your life (or for not having total control over your life or for not being able to affect things in a positive way). I mean there is a fine line between challenging yourself and defeating yourself… like knowing you will never live up to your own potential and expectations because they are too high.
I also don’t think that skinnier is always better, I mean I really would never want to be the skinniest girl in the world.
The worst anorexic I ever saw was just really a skeleton… unrecogniseable… just a total skeleton with skin over it and eye balls in her skull. I was only 15 and I was so worried and scared that I couldn’t do anything but give her a big smile. I wanted to send out something positive instead of staring with my mouth open. I do not know how that girl could still walk. She smiled back at me, I don’t think she knew how deadly skinny she was.
The problem with me is that I look really good when I’m skinny (but not like… dying)… like when I weigh 97 lbs. I look sexy and it makes me feel like I have power and control over guys… sexually. I am too posessive
. I want to be in control I guess… because deep down I want to be loved and for no one to leave me (I have a crippling fear of abandonment). I don’t want to be ‘normal’… I have always wanted to stand out and to be unique and beautiful. I just crave love, affection and attention but at the same time I think I don’t deserve it. Sort of like when someone compliments me on my looks when I think I don’t look good. I guess somewhere in my life I realised people treat you differently according to the way you look. No matter how good I may look, deep down I am still this little girl that is unhappy with herself and feeling guilty.
In 2000, I fell in love with this famous guy who I thought was the hottest, cutest, sweetest, most talented guy ever and he used to tell me I was divine, that my body was perfect, etc (at my lowest weight). I was not just in love… I was obsessed. Not because I was a fan (I wasn’t) but because we’d had this long distance relationship… and he has a strange effect on me… it is like an addiction. I was not unhappy before I met him but afterwards, my past life just seemed boring and colorless.
We got marrried pretty much right away and I moved to the US.
I am really ashamed about it but this guy just totally made me burn inside… I had no control over it. I forgot about myself.
I got so distracted from my life goals and ambitions. Anyways we ended up having some ‘trouble in paradise’.
I should be over this by now but since I am depressed and I am going through so many changes in my life, I look back and idealise the time when we were in love and when he put me on a pedestal. He is an ignorant, insensitive, selfish, troubled, immature, spoiled brat on bad days, but we’ve had such great times and it was when I felt really loved. There was a moment in my life when I felt absolutely no worries or self-doubt.
I feel so low that I can’t just be stronger and forget about this guy… my husband. We’re separated now. He is dating all kinds of groupies and girls that could be his daughters… I am so disgusted and it makes me feel like killing him. He says he still
loves me but he totally ruined everything good I ever though of him. Years of good memories are now destroyed.
Deep down I know I could be wiser and more mature, independant, etc. but it is like I don’t want to let go of these infantile desires. I am also afraid that I am just like him… just as shallow, addicted… immature… estranged… selfish… etc.
Ok well where I am going with this is that I don’t think I can think in a normal way anymore. The lady that did my colon hydro and I talked a bit and she mentioned that anorexia changes your mind… like… the structure of it changes or whatever. Maybe there is no way back.
Bla bla bla well thanks for letting me express my self-pity.
R-
Oh yes….Its so important to never compare yourself to any other!
all bodies are different.
Logically I know this,
but I dont want toever feel like I could ‘get skinnier’
I just want to be as skinny as I could be,
skin over bones.
So if I see someone who is skinnier….it makes me think
“oh, see? I CAN get skinner!”
Like when I was watching that interview with the 45 pound anorexic twins,
all I felt was envy…
and I felt sick for it because the girls were dying and in pain,
but all I could think was how much I wanted to weigh under 50 pounds…..
How they weighed 35 pounds less than I do….
that meant that I could still have 35 pounds to lose and more.
I ALSO have a crippling fear of abandonment!
This is strange because I am always so fearful of abandonment, but I am always the deserter.
I also have a hard time with love…when people tell me they love me, I believe them but I cant figure out why.
Its true, very true…people DO treat you differently based on how you look.
I HATE when people think I am ‘hot’ or ‘sexy’
I would much rather they said ‘oh she looks awful…she looks ill’
I can allso relate to what you just said about your obsession and your infatuated love for your man…..I have always been a slave to love and always sacrifice myself for the man.
I, too, forgot about myself.
In fact-
Between me and you and the lamp post…
My forgetting about myself to ‘love’ him is largely what triggered this recent relapse.
this paragraph:
“since I am depressed and I am going through so many changes in my life, I look back and idealise the time when we were in love and when he put me on a pedestal. He is an ignorant, insensitive, selfish, troubled, immature, spoiled brat on bad days, but we’ve had such great times and it was when I felt really loved. There was a moment in my life when I felt absolutely no worries or self-doubt.”
is simillar, scarily simillar, to
what I feel,
in my situation it would be:
“since I am depressed and I am going through so many changes in my life, I look back and idealise the time when It was just enough to have this person I loved and I put him on a pedastal.
He can be a troubled, immature, spoiled brat on bad days….but for the most part he has always been an amazing man, one who always adores me and never judges me….and
I am always just mean to him now even though I promise myself I will be better to him.
we’ve had such great times and it was when I felt like he could make me happy just by being near.
There was a moment in my life when I felt absolutely no worries or self-doubt.”
In my situation,
I’M the asshole in many ways and I feel so much guilt for it, but I am resenting HIM for ME forgetting about MYSELF.
I am blaming him for my OWN mistake.
This statement:
“I am also afraid that I am just like him… just as shallow, addicted… immature… estranged… selfish… etc.”
I can ALSO relate to…
in my case it woudl read:
“I am also afraid that I am just like him… just as cynical, depressed… insecure… lazy… selfish… etc.”
so I get angry with him for being these things which I fear I may be as well.
girl,
its not self pity!!!!!!
Its understanding yourself in a way that can help others!
KEEP ON DOING THIS!!!!
You help ME realise things, too!!
they talked about her in teen vogue
its nice to be thin but some people go to far.
add me
http://www.myspace.com/lucasstyle
After reading this page, I’ve been offended and touched, and worried, and genuinely comforted at times. I’m Korean, but I live in California, so I was unaware of the stress in Asia to be skinny. Most of my friends are Caucasian, some Korean, some Chinese, some Japanese. We’re all healthy. In response to comment #44, I’m 5’7”, and not “fat as hell” So I guess the stereotyping goes both ways. The fat Americans and the short Asians…so where does that put me? I’m adopted. I grew up with two Italian parents and a Columbian brother. I’ve always wanted to be a model, from the age of 7, and now I’ve accepted that I’ll never be skinny enough. By definition, models have to be impossibly thin. I’m thin, really thin my friends tell me, but I’m just not thin enough. My hips are an inch too wide, my waist a little too thick, my height a little too lacking, but I guess I’ve just accepted that I’m not model material. I can be healthy and thin, but I won’t ever be thin enough, and I refuse to starve myself or overexercise. I gained some weight after I quit select soccer and I got scared that I was becoming too fat, as I went up a couple jean sizes. It turns out that maybe soccer was totally unrelated; it was a thing called puberty happening. So in a society where thin is supposedly in, but there are still those who hover by McDonalds (I love their fries I do confess), where do I fit it? In response to comment #26, I guess I’d be one of those “fat girls” which is truly awful considering I’m on the lower end of a healthy weight. I don’t think being anorexic is disgusting. It’s not healthy, but sometimes it’s not the person’s fault. I think the push to become anorexic is what’s worse than the illness itself sometimes. There’s a little voice that whispers in my ear that guys won’t like me if I’m not skeletally thin, and I often find myself looking at another girl and figuring out which of us is skinnier. It’s perverse, but sometimes I can’t stop myself. I envy those that are skinnier than me, but I won’t due anything about it. I refuse to diet or starve myself, so I’m stuck in between a rock an a hard place.
The best way to solve this starvation issue is to use models who look like “regular” working women.
For example, if you’re 5’7″ tall, you must weigh at least 135 lbs., otherwise, you cannot model.
The fashion industry needs to implement weight “minimums”.
karen-
thats assinine lol
no, dear.
models will never weigh 135…not even at 6 feet tall.
models have nothing to do with anorexia
HAVENT YOU READ ANYTHING I HAVE WRITTEN?
models will ALWAYS be taller than 5’8
and between 95-110 pounds.
their JOB is to make clothes drape nicely.
I suffer from EDNOS with anorexic tendancies, but currently my BMI is over the anorexic range.
My eating disorder has been with me on and off since the age of 12. At 17 I developed a panic disorder followed by a severe episode of depression during which I came very scarily close to killing myself. During my very slow and agonising recovery from this suicidal depression, my ED returned with a vengance.
I completely agree that eating disorders are in no way linked to wanting to be attractive/sexy. I KNOW I look more attractive to men with more weight on. Personally I had a difficult childhood which resulted in me becoming fiercly independant at a very young age, at an age where your parents should be your life and most children have all the trust in the world in them to look after them, I had no tust whatsoever in mine and took it upon myself to look after myself emotionally.
If I really try to delve into the reasons why I starve myself, purge etc. I want to be tiny, not sexy, not attractive, just small. I think the emotional neediness I missed out on as a child has now caught up with me as I reach adulthood (I’m 21) And I currently want nothing more than to be a child again, have complete dependance and trust in somebody else to look after me. Logically I know I can’t starve myself back to childhood, logically I know i am damaging my body and logically i know that the dependance that was lost for me in childhood can never be replaced. But eating disorders aren’t logical diseases.
I just wanted to say to all of you blaming the women for their eating disordes that you disgust me. You would like to think that they have personal responsibility for their problems when really they have just been sucked into the incredibly high(or….low….) standards of the fashion industry. We all go to extremes for something. I’m not sure if that was exactly all i was trying to say but you get it.
I also wanted to say that it’s sad that at the top of this page there is no mention of her three month diet of lettuce leaves and diet coke, or that she was anorexic at all. It says ‘died of heart failure’. I think this is dangerous that we are not very up-front about the problem; we are still trying to keep anorexia hush-hush and pretend it is not a big deal. UGH. I mean come on; she died of anorexia so just say it.
Alyssa-
anorexia has NOTHING to do with “modelling”
or the media lol.
ANOREXICS DO NOT WANT TO “LOOK GOOD”.
anorexia has NOTHING to do with VANITY.
its a CHEMICAL DISEASE.
Also-
I dont think she died of “anorexia”.
..and who ever blamed anyone for their disorder?
Hello,
I have a feeling that I might get lambasted for this comment, but here goes….Women of all types have all kinds of different reasons for their weight loss issues…I had bouts of anorexia and bulemia throughout my teens and twenties, and I can definitely say that those disorders were due to a complex combination of family issues, personal opinion, and the comments of others. Eating disorders, for me, were related to my own self-image. No matter how thin I was, I saw myself as fat and ugly. Understandable, considering that I was bombarded with comments like “you are the ugliest girl I have ever seen” and “you have the body of a pioneer woman, big, you know” from fellow students as well as a constant stream of “fat” and “ugly” coming from your siblings. However, the external barbs only went as far as I allowed them to. I am responsible, to a degree, for allowing them to affect me. Unlike others, I had a bad combination of depressive/anxiety disorder and lack of a father that contributed.
Anyway, my point is that very few would fit into the category that I just described, my own personal combination of factors. So, to think that because someone else is presenting different reasons than yours for having anorexia or bulemia is to say that only your reason is valid. This is not a criticism of other comments on this site, it is only an observation from an individual who has had to deal with this problem for a long time and wants to help. Thanks for listening.
HEY! You can find Luisel photos here:
http://elgonzi.blogspot.com/2006/08/joven-modelo-uruguaya-muere-durante-un.html
Some unseen pics…
Her sister just died of anorexia
Her sister is dead too now. Remember models: it’s better to die young and thin than to get old and fat! If you are young and thin, men will look at you and want to have sex with you. If you are old and fat men don’t want to look at you and then sex is something you read about on the internet….
Dear drbukkake!
Who are you to say it’s good o die young? Are you ana? Are you a woman or a man?
I am a normal woman with an own family and a very good life. I’m not fat or thin. I do a little sport to be good conditioned. At the sport there are men, too. I feel their looks at me. Because I have a female figure. I can’t imagine that most of the men do like such thinny girls. Surely, there are some but there are also some wo like fat women…..Beside that, what is fat??? Love your life. Enjoy the life. Have a look at the trees, the stars in the sky, the flowers…..There are so many thinks to enjoy! Find the love of your life! That is the meaning of life! Don’t count calories every minute! It do not make sense.
Very sad to hear about two people’s deaths. I read about both today for the first time and found this website from a google search. As for BMI, I am five foot ten and a half and weigh 135 lbs and wear a size 1-2 US – I just calculated BMI and it is 19.5. I am over forty, considerably athletic and lead a very healthy and active lifestyle. I can assure anyone who is not tall with a fast metabolism that sometimes keeping on wieght can be a challenge and that there must be women out there who are healthy and still under an acceptable BMI, I can only think of myself, my sister and my brother as teenagers. As a mum I am concerned with the health and well-being of children and feel that we, as parents, must guide our children to have inner strenght, intuition, self guidance and resilience to media and social pressures.
Since it’s hard to prove whether someone’s anorexic or not (except of course in cases like these..) I think it’s a very good idea to simply ban models with BMIs under 18 from runway shows and photo shoots. The clothes shown will not look less good at all! It’s disgusting that girls with a healthy and not high weight are told to lose several kg. Superskinny is NOT beautiful, and it’s just sad that girls at an age when they’re easy to influence are made to believe that it is!
Just in case: pictures of Eliana, Luisel´s sister can be found here:
http://elgonzi.blogspot.com/2007/02/muere-hermana-de-luisel-ramos-modelo.html
hiya! i duno wot ‘drbukkake’ is on about, but hu cares if men wont look at u if ur old n fat? thats not even tru, sum ppl arent so shalow as to onli care about how fat or thin sum1 is. and as to dyin yung n thin, thats stupid, thats sumfing agen for those shallow ppl hu onli care about lookin gud, i mean i luk afta miself, try 2 luk mi best all the time, but id rather luk ruff all time n b fat that die now a size 8!
Leah, are you speaking English? Spell check? I think that what frustrates me is this recurring theme of “naturally thin”. What the hell kind of a phrase is that? I’m 5’9″ and weigh 140. I’m a size 8, and to stay that way, I have to be “conscious” of what I eat. Anyone who says that they’re 5’9″ and taller and weight
Leah, are you speaking English? Spell check? I think that what frustrates me is this recurring theme of “naturally thin”. What the hell kind of a phrase is that? I’m 5’9″ and weigh 140. I’m a size 8, and to stay that way, I have to be “conscious” of what I eat. Anyone who says that they’re 5’9″ and taller and weigh
this is the rest of my post. Apparently it won’t post an entire paragraph?
Maybe the Diet Coke contributed to her death more than the “starving”? Many people in the world voluntarily go without food for long periods of time – and it is called fasting.
Fasting is a time-honored tradition – a time for the body to purify itself and flush out toxins. People fast from 5 days up to 55 days or longer, as part of religious tradition, health reasons, spiritual awakening, etc. During the fasting process, fasters may have water, meat broths, vegetable juices, or the like, depending on the kind of fast they are doing. In every case, what little food they take in must not contain toxic substances that would impede the process of body purification. Meanwhile, Diet Coke is one of the most toxic substances passing as food in the world, probably the most toxic of all the Coke family as it contains aspartame, a known neurotoxin. Why any food is allowed to contain known neurotoxins is beyond me.
Unless her heart condition was really bad, I don’t think Luisel would have died on a diet of lettuce and water. I blame Coke. Yes, she had a pre-existing heart condition, but she aggravated that condition with a piss-poor diet of toxic junk, including a beverage known to interfere with the heart rate (Diet Coke – caffeine)
It is very unlikely that she AND her sister had a pre-existing heart condition. It is NOT healthy to fast for more than a few days at a time. She could have been abusing laxitives or making herself throw up, which causes electrolyte imbalances and then lead to low levels of potassium and then to heart attacks. That makes more sense than saying she had a “hear condition”. I don’t believe that for a second. Diet Coke is healthier than Coke. Sugar is terrible for you.
Chris, what planet do you live on? Diet coke does not contain enough caffiene to kill someone. That is like saying that coffee killed her. Also, diet coke is not toxic. Apspartame has been studied to death by the FDA and is found to be safe, even in mass quantities. Perhaps she was bulemic and abusing drugs such as cocaine. That is a more likely cause than to say she died of a diet coke overdose. Wow…..
Hi
I can’t be bothered with anything these days, but shrug. I just don’t have anything to say recently.
Bye
I feel so sad. Why on earth did they do it. i mean i agree with jenni!
>ANOREXIA HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEAUTY.
>ANORECTICS WANT TO LOOK UGLY, NOT BEAUTIFUL.
>Your whole speech about eating disorders was so off that I >almost doubt you even had one.
>You were wrong about…well….everything.
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But it’s such a complex thing you cannot always say what anorexia is and isn’t about, different people will have different reasons or triggers which they may or may not know of. I know that one of the reasons I had/have anorexia was because I thought people would like me more if I was more attractive (which I assumed meant thinner), now I know I was wrong in thinking that (despite this it is still hard trying to be ‘normal’). You say that from your point of view anorexia is mainly about wanting to be ugly. I have heard of people who feel it is a way of dealing with problems in life and other issues, there are a variety of reasons. My point being that just because one person has certain qualities of the disorder does not mean that everyone has these qualities.
Also I read in some posts that ‘teenagers often say they have had anorexia without actually meaning it’ or along those lines, I don’t know whether or not this statement is true but I would like to point out that as far as I am aware none of us have actually observed these people and their claimed disorder so I don’t think we can make a clear assumption on who has or hasn’t had an eating disorder. However I do know that more people are being effected by eating disorders at an increasingly low age. I was first effected at 12, that was only 2 years ago, but they have been the hardest 2 years of my life so far- (I imagine you would understand?) . Anyway, best of luck to you and my sympathy to the family of Luisel and Eliana Ramos.
drbukkake…YOU ARE A DISGUSTING HUMAN BEING…..to have said what you have said……
I really hope that girls who want to be really thin, just know their limits and look healthy and beautiful and not dead.
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